The Forgotten Black Butterfly: Me

It was probably a week ago when I sat on my deck under the umbrella shielding myself from the already beaming hot sun although it was still pretty early in the day. The deck had become my new office in the recent weeks as it’s one of the few places that I can work without noise or distractions from my family or one of the many televisions that’s on. That means transplanting my laptop, notebooks, reference materials, cell phone, chargers, extension cord, bottled water and possibly snacks…to the patio set on the deck to work outside. I light my citronella torches to keep the bugs at bay and hunker down for as many hours as I can get without interruption – that’s usually till the first kid wakes up. On this day in particular I was feeling very good about all the progress I had been making on a novel that I’m working on when I saw that beautiful black butterfly flying towards me. Instantly the butterfly reminded me of myself and although I was happy to see it initially, it made me feel sad for a moment. Of course I couldn’t grab my phone quick enough to snap the photo before the butterfly had flown away. That visit from the black butterfly had jolted me into a heightened awareness of who I was, who I am and who I still want to be. Realizing that I had somehow managed to forget that there was a time when I thought of myself to be a “black butterfly” too like so many women who have grown, survived and transformed themselves and their lives.

I honored my association with this “black butterfly” with matching tattoos on my left and right legs many years ago. This small and beautiful creature had shaken my whole thought process up. It helped me put things in perspective. This simple unexpected visit from the black butterfly reminded me of everything that I have survived and how much I’ve changed over the years. Some of my changes have been for the better and others haven’t served me well at all. I sat there trying to figure out when I forgot that I’m always that black butterfly even if I don’t recognize it.

Back then I was a very eager go getter about anything that I would involve myself in. If it was something that I wanted to learn or to do, I did it without hesitation. I was highly motivated and looking to be validated instantly. I’m the type of person who wants to be good at everything I do. I like to think that I’m smart, capable, well read and knowledgable. I don’t mind working hard. I’ve always been a team player and try to go the extra mile. Plus I had dreams, big dreams of success, wealth and respect amongst my peers. My books were going to be best sellers. My screenplays were going to get sold for millions of dollars to the biggest studios and made into movies. I could do it all. I even tried to.

I mailed hundreds of query letters off for different novels, or screenplays. I entered contests. I was doing everything I could to strike gold. I didn’t win any of those contests. I never heard from any of those agents, agencies or companies I queried. It was disheartening. It felt like failure and rejection. It made me doubt myself and whether I was any good. Eventually I was published in 2005, a year after my first son was born my first book “Divine Glory” came out.       divineglorybookcover

I felt good about myself and all that I had managed to accomplish in the midst of my pregnancy and arrival of my son. It motivated me to keep pushing. I set my sights on other tasks though. Being a mother who was working full-time was new to me. I had no time to devote to writing or pursuing certain dreams because I was bad at managing my family’s time and mine. I was doing the best I could, so I devoted myself to being the best mother and wife when I was not at work. My family continued to grow and so did my responsibilities. I remember feeling like I had writer’s block for years when I didn’t write anything at all. I felt creatively stifled although I had tons of creativity for my children and their projects and hobbies. There was just none of that creative juice or myself. It was okay though because I was looking for validation in my new career in the finance industry. Starting out the hours were crappy (4:30pm-1:30am), not the worse but not the best when you want to be at home to put your child to bed and kiss them goodnight. The pay was good though and after a while you could work your way up to a better shift which I eventually did. Then a better position at a better company.

I was making more money and was hopeful of the opportunity to advance and build myself a solid career. What I didn’t know was how cut throat corporate environments could be? I was blind to so much that was going on around me because I was just trying to do my job and move up. I did move up but then I got stalled. In my office environment people weren’t moving up solely on merit. It was politics, relationships and a whole lot of other seedy and underhanded scheming and conniving that I had absolutely no parts of. At that point it didn’t matter how well I worked, I was like a thorn in their sides and it became extremely hard to keep my job. Strategically I managed to hold on to my job as long as I could but I was miserable. I was looking to be free of the stress and pressure that I was feeling daily at work. My first day out of corporate I started writing again. I began writing, “Sweet Justice: A Mother’s Revenge” which I published later that year.

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I felt like I was somewhat back on track and that felt good. In 2015 I was baptized and as a result I began a deeper, more obedient relationship with the Lord that helped to transform my life more than I could ever imagine. I was learning a lot about myself and life, what it meant to have faith and believe. I was inspired to write and publish another book, “Amen S.i.s.! It’s Already Done!”

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I was in a good place and it showed in my desire to write and create. I had produced a ladies talent showcase at a local nightclub. I was bubbling again. During these years I was recruited by various leagues or organizations. By chance I had managed to run into a member of the Purple Orchids while I prepared for my first book signing for “Amen S.i.s.!” That connection would lead to an invitation to their group that I accepted. Lastly I was installed as a member in an honored ceremony. I was honored that these ladies had selected me to be a part of their organization. My heart was in the right place but I found myself disinterested and unable to commit to the calendar of events that the group kept. In the meantime I had managed to land a good position in another mortgage company. The pay was better and I was doing something different at the other end of the mortgage spectrum. I liked what I was doing and hoping for a second chance to restart a career that I was eager to succeed in before. What I found out was that the culture that I was finally free of was also running rampant in my new company. I was crushed again. No amount of drive or hard work was going to help me advance or get me the recognition that I might have earned and even deserved in this all too familiar environment. When my time at that organization came to an end I was actually relieved but my ego and pride took a hit that would take me years to recover from.

I was needed at home. Hell, my husband wanted me at home so the timing couldn’t have been better. It was then that I was able to immerse myself into being a full-time stay at home mother and caretaker of my family that also included my mother in law fresh out of rehab. I had found my purpose and was finally feeling free of all the guilt and unhappiness that I had carried around working full time outside of my home. These days were busy with my oldest son’s homeschooling and being the engaged Mom who was on top of it all. Even though I was happy, I still longed to support my family financially so I started driving part-time and eventually full-time as a Taxi Driver. The demand of the long 12 hours shifts from 6pm-6am and the danger of driving into dangerous areas for fares was more than I could bear and again I found myself feeling failed at my attempt again. What was worse is that I hadn’t written in a while again.

I had discovered a love and joy in cooking and I was good at it. I was always a good cook but my time at home with the family had given me new tasks that gave me new comfort. I had found success in making people happy with the meals and desserts that I was preparing and out of it my love for cooking was born and a new dream, culinary school. This come to Jesus moment couldn’t have happened at a better time, all of my young children were enrolled in school and my oldest homeschooling was already established. I was ready to go to culinary school. I applied, was accepted and then I was rear ended in a car accident and again my plans were derailed. I couldn’t commit to the rigorous physical demands of school, plus the damage to my car put me out of commission as I drove for Uber and Lyft part-time then. These feelings of failure and disappointment had become a recurring theme in my life. Something would happen. I would get disappointed and I would move on to the next thing looking for success and validation. Even though I wasn’t working on any specific project I had begun writing about my meals on my blog that became my only creative outlet for a while.

It was only when my family’s world was rocked earlier this Summer that I was jolted out of my writing dry spell. Instantly I was reminded why I was given certain talents and what I could do with them if I tried. It was exactly a week or so after this that I had my encounter with the elusive black butterfly in my backyard and was further reminded that my life has always been about growing, surviving and transforming. I figured out that I could still achieve the level of success that I had dreamt of but that meant that I had to still try. I wondered if I could do it all. I was thrust back into the workforce instantly and didn’t want to leave behind all that I had accomplished working on my books and blog.

How do I feel today? I feel faithful today. I know that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me so it gives me the strength to push on when I find myself feeling the challenges and pressures of day-to-day life. My dreams are still attainable and achievable. I know that I’m capable of more than I give myself credit for and I am anxious to try again those things that I felt like I failed at before because even though I may have forgotten, I’ve always been that beautiful black butterfly. I’ve been ever-growing, surviving and transforming all along. I’ve had failures but I’ve also had successes. I’m looking forward to what ever is next while still enjoying the present that is the gift that keeps on giving. I even have new dreams that I never thought I would be interested in.

I’ve been thinking about this blog post for over a week now. I had bulleted points to remember. I had to hear Deborah Cox’s “Nobody’s Supposed to Be Here” that references her being a “lovely black butterfly” and in the midst I discovered Deneice Williams’s song, “Black Butterfly” and was floored as I listened and read the lyrics, another reminder to keep flying – to keep dreaming.

Lots of us have desires of our hearts and dreams that we are wanting to come to pass, every day we are here is a new opportunity to keep trying. Don’t ever give up. If you fall, get back up. The world needs you.

Peace and Blessings,

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4, Tameka

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Honey Mustard Chicken

Howdy Folks! It’s the start of a new month already! Can you believe it’s August? I want to say I’m shocked that Summer is going by so fast but then I’m reminded that it’s like this every Summer. So you know what that means – school will be back in school. I’m not ready to send my munchkins back but I’m ready to send my munchkins back if you get what I mean.

Today I’m bringing you the latest recipe that I’ve tested in my kitchen…Honey Mustard Chicken. I found a few recipes that I mused over but ultimately followed one closely – SimplyRecipes.com; however it should be noted that there is an equally similar recipe availabie via Recipettineats.com that inspired my journey into Honey Mustard land. I was uber excited to give this meal a try, my famiy loves Honey Mustard so it was nice to think that I could give them a flavor that they love in a new dish. You guys know I’m drawn to simplicity. It’s not that I don’t like complex or meals that require many steps; I just try to plan those meals for days when I have more time in the kitchen. In my research of this recipe I stumbled on honey granules. Apparently you can use these granules in place of liquid honey because of it’s sticky consistency. The granules make it easier to measure the amounts. I didn’t seek to purchase honey granules because I already had honey in stock.

With less than 10 ingredients needed, this recipe was a hit because I had all of them. I was winning already. The recipe calls fr smooth dijon mustard. I had some yellow mustard and deli mustard, so I opted to combine the two in substitute of the smooth dijon mustard. The flavor was still good. This recipe has 3 steps! They used bone in thighs for the recipe but suggests chicken legs as an alternative. Perfect again. I had two packs of chicken drumsticks that I needed to use.

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The honey mustard sauce was whisked together with the mustards, honey, and olive oil making a creamy sticky sauce. The chicken legs were arranged in the baking dish and seasoned with salt and pepper before it is covered with the honey mustard sauce. The chicken is then baked uncovered until it is done. The recipe suggests starting at 45 minutes, I cooked my chicken for an hour. It was perfectly cooked.

While the chicken baked, I worked on the Smashed Potatoes. I cut down my time by placing potatoes in sandwich bags and steaming them in the microwave first. I then used the bottom of my glass measuring cup to smash each of the potatoes before seasoning them with salt, pepper, and a pat of butter. I then layered on shredded sharp cheddar cheese, bacon crumbles and dried parsley. After they were to my liking I put this pan in the oven as the chicken finished cooking.

My husbands’ eyes lit up when it was all finished. The chicken had filled the house with a barely there sweet aroma. It all looked amazing. There was no waiting with this meal, it was done and we were ready to eat.

Honey Mustard Chicken, Smashed Potatoes and Steamed Broccoli

This was a hit all around! The chicken was moist and juicy. The Sauce was the perfect balance of sweet and tangy. The honey and mustard worked well together- neither overpowered the other. The Potatoes were texture and gooey goodness. It was crispy on the edges, the bacon crumbles added to the crunch but the inside of the potato was soft and silky from the butter. It was so quiet at the dinner table! We thoroughly enjoyed this recipe and will be adding this to our rotation.

I highly recommend trying this recipe if you want an affordable and convenient meal for your family.

What’s your favorite weekday meal? Share your fave’s, I need inspiration for the weeks ahead. Thanks for stopping by my little corner of this vast universe! Have a Pleasant Day y’all!

Blessings and Peace,

A Very Pleasant Mom

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Swiss Steak and Mashed Potatoes

It’s a Pleasant Saturday Fam! The weather is mild and sunny and it’s the perfect day to tackle outdoor projects. I have some landscaping that I need to get done if the rain holds out but first I wanted to update you all on the last recipe I tried last night…Swiss Steak. In an effort to stay consistent on my blog I went through my freezer and deep freezer for recipe ideas to plan out a content calendar for the month of August when I ran across a pack of Thin Eye of Round Steaks. At first I thought about Beef and Broccoli or Mongolian Beef. I already do quite a bit of Asian Cuisine so I wanted to try something out of the box.

Now mind you I have no idea if Swiss Steak is actually swiss or not but hey, it sounded foreign so I went with it, lol. Sometimes I research the recipe’s origin but I didn’t this time. I found two recipes first via Pinterest – one from Food52.com and another via certifiedangusandbeef.com that was slightly different as it used cubed steak. I opted to go primarily with the Food52.com recipe because of its simplicity and the fact that I had the same cut of meat that the recipe called for. Y’all I know I love straightforward recipes that don’t require a ton of ingredients or steps and this one was one of those.

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Less than 10 ingredients and I had all but three because I use them frequently and hadn’t restocked my pantry yet. I was excited to give this recipe a try because we are not big steak eaters but I’m always delighted to find a new way to enjoy steak and work with a new cut of meat too. I grabbed my apron and blessed my hands and heart. In my opinion meals are made best when I have love and joy in my heart.

In the background my husband and kids were playing NBA Live and enjoying themselves loudly so I put on my PowerBeats and my Pandora app and started to do what I love most next to spending time with my family – cook for them. 🙂 With all of my ingredients and pans out I was ready to take on this new recipe. At the last-minute I found a third Swiss Steak recipe that was similar to the other two I had previously found on Pinterest. I had no issues with steps 1 and 2 per Food52.com.

I did find that the 3rd step should have been the 4th step and as a result I switched them. Step 3 instructs you to fry onions and green peppers first, remove them and then brown steak on both sides just to put the onions and peppers back into the pan. Alternatively I browned my steaks first, put those to the side before frying the onions and peppers.

The second issue that I found with this recipe was that it called for pan frying in olive oil. After dredging the steaks in seasoned flour I attempted to brown them but the breading started coming off in the pan. So I only dredged about three steaks before I opted to just brown them without the flour dredge. (Tip: I keep and reuse/recycle some of plastic food service containers I receive. They don’t have a long shelf life but I’ve been able to repurpose quite a few things temporarily. For me getting an extra use or 2 out of common items is a way to cut down and reduce trash…I’m a recycle fanatic if you don’t know. So I used a baby back ribs container that I had gotten rom Fridays to dredge the steaks in. Photo Below)

In reviewing the other recipes I decided to use a little minced garlic, smoked paprika, Worcestershire sauce, beef stock and bay leaf in addition. So I added a little more olive oil to my pan, the minced garlic and the onions and peppers. I opted to not cook down the onions and peppers too much as I knew it would possibly need an additional hour or 2 of cooking time over low on the stove top. With the onion and pepper medley to my liking I put the steaks back into the pan on top of it. I then added the stewed tomatoes in. Now the recipe indicates that during the cooking time some of the liquid may evaporate and to add water. One of the other recipes called for beef stock so I grabbed a few beef bouillon cubes and boiled it in a little over a cup of water and added that stock to the pan. A sprinkling of smoked paprika, salt, pepper, 2 teaspoons of worcestershire sauce and a bay leaf to the pan. I covered and simmered on low for two hours.

After two hours the thin steaks were still not as tender as I would have liked, so I cut my oven on 275 degrees, covered my pan and baked it for an additional hour and a half before it was tolerable to eat. I imagine I coud have allowed it to continue baking as it would have only made it more tender but it was already late and we were an hour and a half over the recipes’ instructions. Prior to starting the Swiss Steak recipe I whipped up one of my all time favorites Homemade Mashed Potatoes. To me mashed potatoes is one of the most simple, delicious and versatile sides that you can made cheaply too. Potatoes, water, salt, milk, butter or margarine and chicken stock is all you need for a creamy pot of mashed potatoes.

With my potatoes done, I put together a simple side salad and Voila dinner was ready. I was a little concerned that my husband wouldn’t like it if the steak wasn’t on point. He loves anything tomato based that has onions and peppers. I fixed his plate, took my pictures and then served my patient husband his dinner at almost 11 o’clock on a Friday night, lol. The verdict – Delicious! He loved it. The steak was good. It wasn’t chewy or hard as I hoped it not to be. It was really good. As we sat at the table mulling over it I decided that it was like a Deconstructed meat loaf. And it must have been really good because he got up and ate another plate of it after I retired for the night.

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Swiss Steak over Mashed Potatoes

So Fam, it was another Pleasant dinner, lol. All smiles and clean plates. Now y’all know my children wanted no parts of Swiss Steak although they inquired excitedly about it as I cooked. My oldest son Fredo was supposed to give it a shot but he was nowhere to be found when it was time to eat. For the children I grilled them Beef Hotdogs, one of their absolute favorites. So I can’t complain, every one was satisfied and full from their respective dinners.

I’m contemplating my next challenge. My content calendar suggests making Honey Mustard Chicken with the chicken drumsticks I have in my deep freezer but I was watching Diners, Drive-in’s and Dive’s with my husband and was intrigued by Empanadas, a meat pie or savory turnover. A lot of cultures have their own versions of the empanadas like the Jamaican’s do the Beef Patty or Chicken Patty that employs the same technique – meat filling in a pastry dough that is baked. So make sure you check back to see what I decide.

What do you think I should try next? Honey Mustard Chicken or Empanadas? Let me know in the comments and I might just take your advice or suggestions. Enjoy the rest of your Saturday folks, it’s almost time for me to pick up my oldest son from basketball practice.

Peace and Blessings,

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4 – Tameka

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Southern Pulled Pork

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Southern Pulled Pork

Happy Hump Day to ya! Has the summer sun been chased away by the rain in your area? It’s been raining off and on for days now and while I am glad to have a break from the heat, this rain is trying to put a damper on the summer fun. If you’re like me you probably swear by your grill all year long including the sweltering hot days of Summer! That makes you a serious Griller because not everyone can manage the heat that comes from cooking on a grill out in the hot scorching sun. We are the true survivors! 🙂 Me, I’ve braved all kinds of weather outdoors in pursuit of outdoor grilled delicacies. It was during Hurricane Isabel over 10 years ago that I manned the grill that provided the only cooked food we had access to for weeks with no electricity. Then I can’t forget about the tropical storm two years ago that flatlined my daughters’ outdoor birthday bonanza; we didn’t have electricity for a week and a half and had resorted to living off of our grill and generator. Then there are those times that during the winter the indoor grill pan won’t cut it. I’m going outside coat, apron and all in pursuit of that flame killed perfection. You get it? I likes’ to get my grill on. I’m the Grill Master of our family and I hold that title proudly yet this rain makes it tough to do. I like traditional charcoal grills. I don’t like fooling with propane tanks or whatnot. Plus, nothing beats that flavor you can evoke from the charcoal and some wood chips if you like to go the extra mile.

With rain in our forecast for the past few days I decide to rely on my trusty oven to do my next to favorite cooking process – low and slow. You can’t go wrong with cooking anything low and slow. So that’s what I did for the pork shoulder I bought from my favorite store, Kroger. I live in Kroger y’all. I’m seriously considering applying for a part time job there because I spend so much time and money there. There are lots of ways to ensure you get a dynamite pulled pork. Some folk like to brine their pork shoulder first. Some may brine and then sear it before slow cooking. This time around I opted to season it with my store bought dry rub and wrap it in plastic wrap. The seasoned and wrapped pork shoulder went into my fridge overnight.

 

The next day I woke up, thanked God for another day and got back to this beautiful pork shoulder. My oven was pre-heated to 225 degrees. I removed the plastic wrap and placed the pork shoulder with the skinside up into a roasting pan. I covered with tightly with aluminum foil and set my timer for 7 hours. Then I went about my day. Even though there is a little prep and time involved – it’s actually a no frills, no fuss type of meal. These are the meals I love.

Seven hours breezed by so fast, before I knew it my timer was beeping and the house was smelling absolutely divine. This is when I pulled together a quick smoking sauce to pour over the almost one Pork Shoulder. I used Hickory flavored liquid smoke, apple cider vinegar, Louisiana Hot Sauce and Worcestershire sauce in my smoking sauce. A quick blend of all the liquids with a fork or whisk, and then I poured it all over my pork shoulder and wrapped it back up with foil and put it back in the oven for 2 more hours. The remaining seasonings minus the dry rub were used to season the pulled pork once cooled and shredded.

After the two hour mark my pulled pork was to my liking. It was fork tender, so I removed the skin and fat cap from the top first.

With the skin and fat removed I used to fork to pull my pork shoulder apart.

The pulled pork was seasoned additionally with the likes of Ground Cumin, Chilli Powder, Ancho Chile Pepper, Garlic Salt, Onion Powder, Smoked Paprika and Crushed Red Pepper flakes. We like ours to have that tinge of vinegar flavor, so I also added more apple cider vinegar. I also used a little salt to season with overall but not much because I have two folk in my house with High Blood Pressure.

 

All in all this pulled pork was so flavorful, moist and tender! It was definitely a home run and I always know I did it again when I see the look on my husband’s face when he tries it. His face said it all, it was a hit! Since his diabetes scare I had reverted back to brown rice, so I boiled him a bag of brown rice to go with it. Personally I’m not a pork over rice type of girl, I like a pulled pork sandwhich and I was lacking the cole slaw so I wasn’t even any of it until I could have it the way I wanted it. A portion of it was put aside for my husband’s dinner and the rest went in a plastic bowl and lid for the next day…his birthday!

At the store the next day I retrieved hamburger buns, cole slaw mix and my dressing of choice, Marie’s. I spice my cole slaw up with a little smoked paprika, salt, and pepper. To add to his birthday fiesta I used leftover chicken breasts to make fried chicken tenders (from the Chicken, Sausage and Mozarella Pasta I made the other day), grilled lobsters and steamed white shrimp. I always include veggie and fruit trays because my family loves fresh vegetable and fruits. I can’t forget his cake – a yellow cake with whipped icing from you know where…Kroger. He loves the cake with whipped icing, so I was glad I was able to find one since I hadn’t had the time to order his cake beforehand.

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Dad’s Birthday Table

I’m thankful that my husband was able to celebrate another year of life knowing that the people who love him most, appreciate him and celebrate his life and presence, not just on his birthday but every day. We had a great evening of food, family fun and lots of love.

So the Southern Pulled Pork was a hit and my husband’s birthdy fiesta was a hit! I’m so grateful that God’s grace has made it all possible.  This Southern Pulled Pork recipe is another one of my tried and true favorites that will be included in my soon to be released, “A Very Pleasant Home”.

How do you like your pulled pork? Over rice, or on a bun like me? My thoughts when it comes to buns are keep it simple. Every time I’ve tried some fancy bun or roll, it has thrown off the texture and bite of a Southern Pulled Pork. A simple hamburger bun will do the trick.

Hope your Hump Day is off and running, the weekend isn’t far behind. What am I going to cook up next? I have no idea but right now I still have lots of pulled pork and buns so I’ve got time to figure it out. Check back for more great meal ideas and more!

Peace and Blessings,

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4

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Chicken, Sausage and Mozzarella Pasta

On the heels of a new week, Sunday’s are the perfect days for big sit down dinners with the family. We don’t get to do it every day but whenever we do it’s a nice treat. It’s an even better dinner when we all can enjoy the same thing.

Tonight’s dinner was inspired by a meal I saw Ree Drummond prepare on “The Pioneer Woman”, one of my favorite cooking shows. She made “Chicken Mozzarella Pasta” and hers inspired my own version that I created tonight for my family. Like her recipe, mine boasts cubed chicken breasts, fresh mozzarella and parsley. My version also included slices of sautéed andouille sausages for that extra kick of flavor.

What I love about this recipe is that it’s pretty straightforward. It’s a great combination of fresh and store bought ingredients. I was confident in my flavors but a little hesitant…my husband is not a big fan of pasta. So I knew if I could tickle his palette, I might could pull it off with the kids.

Please use fresh mozzarella in your pasta, the cheesiness is ridiculous. This pasta was absolutely amazing! I knew my husband approved when he couldn’t stop eating it out of the pan. And all of my kids loved it including Cassius who typically eats only cheese pizzas and chicken nuggets.

I served this deliciousness with sliced Italian bread and a chopped romaine salad with bacon, Roma tomatoes, cucumbers and sharp cheddar cheese. Generous coverage of black pepper and seasoned croutons over top the salad was the perfect compliment to this hearty Italian feast.

I am so pleased with how this came out, it definitely passed the Pleasants seal of approval. This will be one of my recipes included in my book, “A Very Pleasant Home”.

A great quick and easy clean up dessert was Food Lion Cookies and Cream ice cream sandwiches or the Banana Split ones…2 for $4.00 . I even cut my kids in halves so they wouldn’t waste them.

The week ahead is looking good already and this was the perfect meal to start it with! Follow my blog for more successful meal ideas!

Have a great week!

A Very Pleasant Mom

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Christmas in July

 

With the kind of start to the month that my family had you would definitely understand why I titled this post, “Christmas in July”. Our lives were rocked by an incident that  caused my family to be separated from each other temporarily at the beginning of the month. The things that we were going through made me empathize with the many families who have been separated by the border patrol agents, the justice system and even medical ailments and diseases.

Our reunion this month truly felt like Christmas came early. With joy in our soul and love in our hearts, it was just the pick me up we all needed to remind us that the love of God is real and ever present. Feeling like I had witnessed a miracle happen before my very eyes I was soaring like an eagle spiritually when my birthday sailed around on the 14th of this month.

My birthday wish this year was simply to have my family be together and not disjointed. I got exactly what I wanted so it was certainly time to celebrate.

Circumstances each day are beyond our control but how we get through these situations are the true tests that life throws at you unexpectedly. My family and I aren’t strangers to hard times as we have survived and overcome many obstacles placed in our way. Celebrating my 37th birthday was a welcomed reflection of all that I have experienced, endured or overcame in my lifetime thus far. I am proud of the woman I am today. I am hopeful for the woman I will be tomorrow. The food spread was amazing and catered by yours truly. Yes I cooked my own food. I like my food the best. I’m just saying. The final spread included a Family Variety Feast from Bojangles that contained chicken, chicken tenders, mac and cheese, dirty rice, french fries and sweet tea. I prepare and cooked 2 racks of BBQ ribs, cheeseburger sliders, a crawfish boil, steamed and spiced shrimp, guacamole, hot dogs and crab dip. Of course there was tons of food to last us a couple of days and it was all delicious. I ate so much crawfish and shrimp on my birthday that I didn’t even get a chance to eat an actual plate after that. It was cake to top it all off and that was all she wrote. I was stuffed.

The crawfish were so fresh and juicy. I found a new home at Captain Greg’s Seafood on Mechanicsville Turnpike. The ladies there were friendly and knowledgable. I picked up the crab dip here too and a few sleeves of Ritz crackers too.

Today I woke up and got right back to the things that I have been working on because this is important to me. I miss working on my blog. I miss the excitement and intrique of engagement. Seeing the notifications and comments, watching the numbers rise slowly each month. It’s not a science that I have yet perfected but I am invested enough to keep giving this my best shot.

I jumped back on the bandwagon today and found a new recipe on Pinterest. I was looking for a recipe to use my overipened bananas in. I remembered pinning a Jamaican Banana Fritters recipe a few week ago, so I pulled it up and confirmed I had all of the ingredients or a suitable substitute before immersing myself back in blog life.

This recipe was great right off the bat because of it’s ease and convenience. How many times have we braved the kitchen to whip something up magical and realize we are short an ingredient or two or three? I dread the shame walk back to the store to retrieve additional items. Proper planning is key to reducing these dreadful trips back to the supermarket.

The Jamaican Banana Fritters recipe that I tried today is courtesy of http://www.cookingmaniac.com. The ingredients needed are 3 super ripe bananas, 2 eggs, vanilla, nutmeg, cinnamon, flour, milk, molasses, sugar, salt and oil to shallow fry fritters.

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My super ripened bananas to be used in the Jamaican Banana Fritters.

The recipe boasts five steps and is not exactly clear as to when the molasses should be incorporated into the mixture. I figured this out when I was ready to fry and I realized that the recipe didn’t address it. So I added it into the batter/mixture  before beginning the frying process.

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Jamaican Banana Fritters being shallow fried in a cast iron skillet.

This recipe is super simple and it came out light and delicious. I found the final product to be very light in sweetness overall but the confectioner’s sugar helped tremendously. So long story short, if you like them barely sweet keep this recipe as is. If you want more sweetness add in more sugar to the batter or coat generously with confectioner’s sugar after fried and cooled.

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The finished product Jamaican Banana Fritters coated generously with confectioner’s sugar.

So far 2 of my four children have all tasted and approved the Jamaican Banana Fritter’s recipe. I ate 3 so far myself so that’s got to mean something good right? I’d interested to see if my daughter will like these, she’s a big eater but sometimes she just doesn’t gravitate to certain things. I think my husband will tell me it’s good regardless but I definitely don’t think these are his cup of tea. I’m interested to see how similar New Orleans beignets are to these fritters. Maybe I’ll try that next.

Either way I’m back, and you can see what’s going on around this side of the woods by following me on Twitter @PleasantsMomof4.

Hope to see you soon!

Peace and Blessings,

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4

 

 

Southern Fried Fish & Life in Bloom

May, a month many of us look forward to for our own reasons…maybe you welcome the change in climate, the holidays we celebrate (Cinco de Mayo, Mother’s Day, Teacher Appreciation, Memorial Day, etc.) or maybe it represents something else for you. The rainy blah of April welcomes an exciting and expectant month of May and so far this month has not disappointed one bit!

I had planned to do a Cinco de Mayo inspired spread of delicious foods instead I was whisked away to Grand National Harbor for a romantic getaway by my husband. I couldn’t have thought of a better way to spend my Saturday night and Cinco De Mayo. We had a beautiful night, a classy and swanky, Voltaggio Brothers Steak House set the ambiance and back drop for a night to remember. The food was pricey but well worth it. My husband’s steak was huge and so tender it didn’t need a knife, I had the crab cake that was mostly crab – that was baked in a metal tin to keep it together. The wait staff made the experience that much better. They made you feel like VIP for the bread you spend.

Our stay in Oxon Hill, Maryland was the best kickoff for a month that has been blossoming into one surprise after the other. We look forward to going back and rekindling our romance right where we left off. If the Grand Harbor is booked, Harborside is literally right around the corner and it was a hit at a great price. Of course it wouldn’t be a trip if we didn’t stop at Potomac Mills Shopping Mall on the way back home. I’ve got one word for you – Deals! There were so many deals, I promise you there is something for everybody in that mall. I even got the chance to make a Unicorn for my daughter at the Build -a- Bear store. That was truly one of the cutest experiences I’ve ever encountered…the care and sentiment they put into crafting your child’s keepsake is out of this world. I ended up making a purple unicorn that smells like cupcakes with a colorful tutu. By the time we had shopped, we were ready to drop, and see our babies.

The week ahead would prove to be a busy one as usual. Teacher Appreciation Week had been on my calendar for months and of course my surprise trip threw me off a little bit. Monday I woke up ill prepared for teacher appreciation and headed straight to the store once I dropped the kids off at school. I had no solid plan but I knew I wanted to send them something daily. I found white paper lunch bags, grabbed some snacks, and drinks. Each day they received a different snack or treat bag and on Friday I sent in school supplies per the schools’ request. Mind you, I have three children in elementary school, and 1 of them has 2 teachers so that was a total of 4 bags each day. The first day I let the kids draw pictures on the bags, another day I found a poem that  I taped to each bag. I tried to make each teacher’s bag as individual and unique as they are. I wish I had taken pictures but it was one of those weeks that I feel lucky that it got done, even if their isn’t a picture to capture the memory. What I do have? Thoughtful messages and thank you cards from my children’s teachers and those I certainly intend to keep. Shout out to the hardworking teachers and staff at Harvie Elementary School! Special thanks to our former teachers Mrs. Bradford and Mrs Raymond. Super special thanks to our current teachers Ms. Dowell, Ms. Brown, Mrs. Brooks-Giles and Mrs. Purnell, all beautiful ladies, inside and out!

With Teacher Appreciation Week out-of-the-way, a full week of activities that now includes basketball practice for the boys at two different schools twice a week. I was happy to return to my norm and happy place in my kitchen, and who would’ve thought that I would have cooked a complete meal on a Friday night? Fridays’ are typically a fast food type of night or a DIY type of meal – meaning it’s everyone for themselves. Yes, my younger kids can make their own food as long as it’s in the microwave or fresh. My oldest son is a Sous Chef in training, so his privileges and skill in the kitchen are a little more advanced. He even has his own apron. The specialty of this Friday, the 11th was southern fried whiting, macaroni and cheese, collard greens with smoked pork neckbones and Jiffy cornbread. My Friday night dinner turned out great. The fish was crispy and flavorful from the Creole seasoning I added to the fish coating. The macaroni and cheese was creamy and gooey. The collard greens were seasoned perfectly, you could taste a hint of the apple cider vinegar and the red pepper flake. The cornbread was moist and cake like from the vanilla extract that I added to the mixture of Jiffy Mix, egg and milk.

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Southern Fried Whiting, Macaroni and Cheese, Collard Greens with Smoked Pork Neckbones and Cornbread

One thing I had done was properly prepare for Mother’s Day as I had been picking up gifts and cards for the past month or so. So I was smooth sailing as Mother’s Day approached and only needed to pick up a couple of things to complete my shopping. The only other thing that was of importance to me was to make sure I paid homage to one of the best mothers I’ve ever known, my Granny. Visiting her grave is always an emotional thing for me. Even though I don’t want to cry when I get out there, I always end up sobbing by the time I’m driving off. I miss her a lot. I knew she would appreciate the yellow roses I added to her headstone. On this particular day it was only my daughter with me, she watched me closely as I cleaned up my grandmother’s plot. I removed the old flowers and brushed the dust off with my hands. I kissed the top of the headstone as if she could feel it in heaven and then I had to leave because it was too hot to be standing out in the cemetery crying, and my daughter was visibly confused by my tears.

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Beautiful yellow roses for my Granny, Mrs. Viola Chambers.

Leaving the cemetery left us hot and sweaty,  and the kids needed something to do. I don’t know what I was thinking but I decided to take them to the splash park in my area. 60 minutes was all I could stand but I’m nobodies fool, I put my bathing suit and shorts on too. There was no way I was going to sit out in that heat and sun without indulging in the cool refreshing water play.

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Fun at the Splash Park with the Youngest Bambino’s.

By the next day – Mother’s Day I was worn from the busy week, when my husband asked what I wanted to do that day my response was simple, “absolutely nothing”. And nothing was what I did that day from the comfort of my bed. I caught up on much-needed beauty sleep and chillaxed catching up on missed shows like “The Last O.G.”. I gorged myself on the 30lb bag of Haribo Gummy Bears I was gifted by my family, a Wendy’s single with bacon combo and brown liquor, lol (Shout out to Loni Love – that brown liquor is the truth). As Ice Cube said, “it was a good day” and there is nothing that I would change about it. What do you get the Mom who truly has it all? Flowers galore, a new cellphone and 30lbs of Gummy Bears (I might be exaggerating a tad but I promise you we are still eating the same bag of Gummy Bears). Even though I wasn’t expecting or in need of anything, I was very delighted by my husband and children’s thoughtfulness.

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Mother’s Day proved to be relaxing and rejuvenating at the same time and rightfully so, I had another jam-packed week coming up with more wonderful delights blooming each day. I woke up first thing Monday morning to be reminded that I had “Muffins with Mom” at the school with the kids. I made it to the school fashionably on time and enjoyed some time with my babies eating pastries. It was a great turnout! There were so many moms, grandmas’, and mother figures – I had to park behind the school and walk around the building. I appreciate their school taking time to recognize us Moms and the roles that we play in our homes and children’s lives.

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A selfie at Muffins with Mom.

I can’t remember how long but maybe a couple of months ago I wrote nominations for each of my children’s teacher’s for Henrico County Public Schools “Heart of Henrico” Contest that recognizes Henrico County employees who demonstrate the heart of our great county. Lo and behold one of my nominations was selected for my son King’s 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Brooks-Giles. As a result Mrs. Brooks-Giles and her entire class would be recorded one day at the school, and on a separate day I would be recorded at my home. Wow, my first filming in years. I can’t remember the last time I was actually recorded but my last notable appearance was in an Arthur Ashe documentary on HBO back in the day. Yes, I am on film being instructed how to hit the tennis ball by the late, tennis great, Arthur Ashe. So anything in between then and now was small beans. I wanted to look good for my new debut to television so I went on the search for a Loctician to hook a sister up. Thank God my search engine took me to Natural Beauty Salon & Spa where I submitted my appointment online late Monday night. Tuesday morning my appointment was confirmed, and before I knew it Mrs. Alecia had me washed, re-twisted and styled. I was ready.

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These locs have been slayed!

     Wednesday morning was a blur, my allergies had kicked my butt and was wreaking havoc on me. The film crew arrived on time but I needed 30 more minutes to let my allergy medicine fully kick in. I couldn’t be on camera sneezing and snotting all over the place. That would definitely not be a good look. With my house in order, the refreshments laid out, and my allergy medicine working I was ready when Mr. Gill and his associate showed back up 30 minutes later. “Always be prepared” is the girl scout motto or at least it was when I was a Brownie Scout. That lesson has stuck with me my whole life, even when I decided the last-minute to cut my grass the Tuesday before. Thank God I did. We had cleaned my house from top to bottom (okay the main floor and the basement/den floor) to prepare for the filming. You can imagine my surprise when they suggested filming outdoors to change-up their normal scenery…inside the schools. I smiled as I thought about all the tidying and straightening up that we had done in preparing of the recording. Still, the yard looked great due to the last-minute cut, and the recording went smoothly. He asked me a few questions, and had me say a couple of lines. I was officially a STAR!

The next day King and his class would be recording their segment of the video and he couldn’t have been happier. Even though it had been raining cats and dogs for days their smiles that Thursday en route to school was as bright as the shining sun. King looked good. He was ready for his debut too.

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We lucked out and was able to finish our week off on a high note. The kids got Little Caesar’s pizza for dinner and I treated the older folks to one of my favorite dishes…Old Charleston Style Shrimp and Grits compliments of allrecipes. This time I used bags of small shrimp and andouille sausage that I had on hand in my deep freezer. It came out spot on point. The Shrimp and Sausage gravy was comforting and sumptuous. The grits were creamy and cheesy at the same time. Together in a bowl – it was heaven on earth. Yet as good as it was, it’s all gone. My husband  demolished most of it overnight. I woke up to one bowl left so needless to say that was my breakfast of champions.

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Old Charleston Shrimp and Grits with French Bread

A distant memory is all that remains of the Shrimp and Grits but it’s okay because I’ve moved on in my heart and kitchen. I am on the cusp of finishing yet another meal – this time – pulled pork, potato salad and collard greens. The pork is done. The greens are almost done and the minute I get up from finishing this blog post I can finish the potato salad.

In the meantime I hope you will sign on to follow my journey – there are lots of great things to look forward to and I can’t wait to share it all with you in hopes that you too are finding new ways to enjoy and live your most pleasant life each day. I’ve got a 10 part post series promoting Self-Care, Health & Wellness coming up that I can’t wait to share with you all. I’m working on a book review, and some other well thought out ideas that I hope you guys find refreshing, helpful or at the very least entertaining. Till next time!

Peace, love and fish grease!

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4, Tameka

#TeacherAppreciationWeek

#HeartofHenrico

#MothersDay2018

#AllRecipes

#FishFry

#Shrimp&Grits

 

 

 

Chinese Pepper Steak, Chinese Spare Ribs and Crab Rangoons

Happy Monday! It’s the second week of May and I’m excited to get right to it! You all know I’m attempting to master Asian cuisine dish by dish. I’ve done General Tso’s Chicken, Shrimp Fried Rice, Orange Chicken, Korean BBQ and tons of stir fry. Recently I had the taste for Pepper Steak and I knew I had a flank steak in the deep freezer, so I thought, “let’s give it a shot”.

Justapinch.com has a great recipe for Chinese Pepper Steak that is very simple. 13 ingredients and 3 steps..not too bad. There were a couple of swaps and a substitution, oh and I had to get 1 item – the dry sherry. I substituted the peanut oil for vegetable oil, and swapped out fresh ginger for ground ginger I have on hand, and minced garlic in the jar that I keep in the refrigerator. I did buy fresh peppers and onion because my husband loves that largely cut crisp of the fried peppers and onions. You could use a frozen pepper and onion mix to save time but the veggies won’t be as firm.

Right off the you want to slice your flank steak diagonally against the grain.

With the flank steak sliced, the official first step is to mix the marinade in a howl. That includes the soy, dry sherry, sugar, cornstarch and 1/2 cup of water.  I let my meat marinate for at least a couple of hours.

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The sliced beef flank steak marinating in the soy sauce mixture.

When you’re ready to cook your pepper steak you’ll want to get your wok hot. Not too hot though. I’ve made the mistake multiple times of letting it get to hot, adding in my oil and garlic and getting popped by hot oil on my arms or face. Oil, garlic and scallions are added to the hot wok for 30 seconds before the first batch of sliced beef flank steak is cooked for 3 minutes.

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The first batch of steak to be cooked.

The cooked steak is removed from the pan before the remaining half is cooked in the pan. With all of the steak cooked, the cut peppers and onions are fried in the pan.

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The vegetables being stir fried.

I browned my veggies a little before adding the remaining marinade to the wok and cooked till bubbly and thickened. All of the cooked steak is added back into the pan and mixed in with the sauce and vegetables.

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I poured the contents of the beef flank marinade in the pan with the steak and vegetables and allowed it to cook until the liquid began to bubble and thicken.

I also made Chinese Spare Ribs to go with the Beef Pepper Steak. I found a pack of St. Louis style spare ribs in my deep freezer that I thawed before removing the back membrane.

 

I was able to use a butter knife to remove the membrane from the ribs. Once the membrane was gone, I was able to easily slice the ribs individually.

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With the ribs cut, I was able to prepare the marinade according to the recipe instructions. The recipe I used is compliments of Food Network courtesy of Jeff Mauro who uses hoisin, soy sauce, honey, five spice powder, ginger and food coloring for the best Chinese Spare Ribs I’ve ever tasted. I prepared the marinade by combining all ingredients into a non-reactive bowl. I did season my ribs with meat tenderizer before bagging them in a gallon zip bag and covering them with half of the marinade. I allowed the ribs to marinate in the refrigerator while I prepared the Pepper Steak.

Once marinated I grilled the ribs indoors on my grill pan, basting with the reserved marinade before I baked them all together in a pan for roughly 1.5 or longer until the ribs were tender.

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With the ribs baking away in the oven I whipped up some Shrimp Fried Rice (you can check out a previous post I think for the details) and lastly but not least, the Crab Rangoon. First let me say, it took me a couple of stores to find the wonton wrappers. I was delighted to find them in a Food Lion near my house, so I grabbed two packs as they were 2 for $5.00. The packages had to have at least 24 wrappers or more as I had so much filling and wrappers to use, that I ended up frying the remaining Crab Rangoons the day after as a snack.

Crab Rangoon are easy to assemble. Dinner Then Dessert.Com has a great recipe that is simple to make yet full of flavor. 7 ingredients is all you need for restaurant quality Crab Rangoon  – crab meat (imitation is noted in the recipe), 8 oz of cream cheese, minced garlic, Worcestershire sauce, wonton skins, a beaten egg and oil for frying. Once the crab meat is chopped into small pieces it is then mixed well with the cream cheese, garlic and worcestershire sauce. I also added some green onions to mine before I assembled the Crab Rangoon. There were multiple methods that I employed in fixing these, the best method that allowed the pocket to retain all of the filling was a double skinned wonton that was pinched together in the center. The beaten egg was used to seal the edges of the Crab Rangoons before they were deep-fried to golden perfection.

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With all of the items done, I fixed our plates anxious to dig in.

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When dinner was complete my husband walked in, in search of the infamous Chinese food boxes that litter our trash at times. There were none. He was impressed. I was content. We ate. We enjoyed it. It was actually good and it tasted fresh and authentic. I am so pleased with how this meal came out that I will definitely be adding this to our regular meal rotation.

Till next time … Be Blessed and Be a Blessing!

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4

#ChinesePepperSteak

#ChineseSpareRibs

#CrabRangoons

#Delicious

 

Baked Alaska and a Lesson in Lawn Maintenance and Life

I’m not even going to waste time and look at the date of my last blog post. It’s going to make me disappointed in myself temporarily and ultimately dampen my good mood. So on with the good stuff, this blog post is going to be jam-packed with lots of good stuff so let me not waste your time either!

I haven’t had the chance to cook that much in the last week because it was one of those weeks. If you have kids and a busy schedule, sometimes you have a period of time where it feels like all you’re doing is moving. In and out the house all day, every day for multiple days in a row. The day-to-day life of the daily grind Monday through Friday is already exhausting but add appointments, extracurricular activities, repairs, school activities and the extra stuff that you don’t do each day and you can find yourself winded by the time it’s all said and done. Actually the last two weeks have been like this, now that I think about it. The Baked Alaska I’ll be sharing today was made on Monday, April 16th as the second cake for my oldest son’s 14th birthday.

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A shot of the birthday table before I made the fruit salad, lol

His first cake was a store brought 1/2 sheet cake with half yellow cake and half devil’s food chocolate with whipped icing. The second cake was my first Baked Alaska. After being given the idea by one of my sons’ dentist I decided that it would definitely be a good recipe to try. It looked complicated once I realized what a Baked Alaska was. I think I confused it with Baked Apples, I dunno.

So now since I knew what Baked Alaska consisted of, I found that there were many flavor variations that could be used to construct the cake. First you should know what Baked Alaska is in case you don’t. It’s a cake that has been topped with ice cream and browned meringue according to Wikipedia’s definition that popped up in my Google search. With that being said, the possibilities are endless when it comes to what direction you choose to go in. This was also the perfect cake for my son because like a Baked Alaska he is sweet and cool. He has many layers to him just like the cake I dreamed up and I love that the most about him and the young man he is growing into. My son loves Brownies so I decided to make the cake layer 2 layers of Brownie. The Ice cream layer was a first layer of cookies and cream ice cream and a second layer of caramel ice cream. The Meringue covered it and encased it a fluffy covering that encased the ice cream and brownies.

I decided to short cut the brownies for the first layer by using a box brand mix from the grocery store. The instructions were pretty straight forward – I bought disposable cake pans because I didn’t want a ton of dishes in the sink afterwards. I sprayed my pans with Baking Spray and then mixed together the brownie batter. The brownie batter was then poured into the cake pans. At that point I realized that I should have just made 1 layer of brownie as the second pan was barely enough to call it an actual layer but I went ahead because I didn’t want to pour that batter into the other pan since it had the baking spay in the pan too. It might not have changed the brownie batter but at the same time I didn’t want to risk it. I wouldn’t have time to fix it and have it ready to eat on his birthday. I just made a mental note to check the brownie layers as the smaller layer would cook faster.

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The finished brownie layers.

The first brownie layer was perfect brownie texture, the second was a thin almost cookie like version of the brownie. I shuttered for a moment and kept moving. It was too late to turn back now. During the brownie baking I put together the ice cream layer. First I lined a plastic bowl with several layers of plastic wrap making sure to leave enough hanging over the bowl to pull the ice cream out once frozen. Next I scooped the thawed ice creams into the bowl and wrapped it closed before freezing it again.

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Before making my meringue I assembled the brownie layers on the bottom and then put the ice cream dome on top before wrapping it all together in the plastic wrap. The recipe I used to guide me cut the excess ice cream or cake off. I hate waste so I just used my hands to mold the ice cream in shape with the brownie layers, re-wrapped it and returned it to the freezer.

In most of my research the meringue is assembled over a double boiler however the recipe that I used did not. So I separated my eggs, putting the whites in a bowl with the cream of tartar. I used my hand mixer to beat the egg whites and tartar for so long that my arm started to hurt. When I saw the peaks beginning to form, I got excited and stuck my (clean) finger in the foam and then I unknowingly licked my finger. Gross! There was no sugar in that yet so that was totally disgusting. Back on track I added in the remaining ingredients and continued to beat it together. Truly I’m positive my meringue was still a little lacking but I would have to play around with this recipe another time to troubleshoot what might have gone awry.  With the meringue to my satisfaction I removed the frozen layers and unwrapped it on top of a cake stand. I did this all very fast as the kids were done eating and anxiously awaiting the second cake – the nerve of these kids right?

Next I began spreading the meringue all over the dome until it was completely covered. Of course my torch lighter was low on fluid and it would have given me that perfectly browned look I was going for. Even putting it in the oven on Broil didn’t give it the browning I was looking for. My last resort was my husband’s torch lighter that allowed me to just touch a few spots. I was done and it was time to serve the Baked Alaska Brownie treat up.

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The finished Baked Alaska.     
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A slice of the Birthday Boy’s second cake.

The Baked Alaska was a hit. It was absolutely scrumptious. The brownie layers complemented the other, the soft chewy one made the crispy one just as good. I’m glad I opted to use two flavors of ice cream. The caramel was smooth and rich – the cookies and cream was sweet with bits of cookie. The meringue was light and salty. (Not sure if I goofed or if this was mixing issues) Even the salt was good, with all the sweet it was just enough to tie it all together. Everybody loved the cake! My sons friends and some random kids devoured the whole cake and poof, in an instant it was gone. My son graciously thanked me for the cake and his great birthday party with a great hug. I was pleased all around. Though I had some issues, baking and otherwise (the first laptop I bought hours prior had a screen issue), it still turned out to be a great day and that’s all that I care about…the people I love knowing that they mean the most to me and them showing them how.

With my sons’ birthday behind me I had a quick moment to tighten up the backyard. So I pulled out my trusty Weedeater by Briggs & Stratton and prepared to do a quick cutting of the grass. To my disbelief and horror my lawn mower failed to start repeatedly. I checked everything. It had oil. It had gas. I moved it to a flatter location, primed and pulled the cord – still nothing. My heart began to sink. Yes I said it, my dead lawn more made me sad. One I like for my stuff to work and be operational especially when I need it but then I hate having to replace things or have them fixed. People aren’t honest or do the best work these days so nine times out of ten I would just buy another one. I’m too crafty and handy for that and my husband sparked my interest when he said that I might need a new spark plug. To YouTube I went in search of lawn maintenance videos. I did my research and found out what parts I needed and how to do the tune up to my lawn mower. I picked up the items over the next day or so, I think I found everything at Wal-Mart which was great because I feel like I live in Wal-Mart sometimes.

Yesterday, armed with my oil and spark plugs (I bought two different ones because I wasn’t 100% sure), the toolbox and my lawn mower I proceeded to perform the tune up. I needed a torque wrench though and I couldn’t find it. I’m certain we had one but I was at a standstill if I couldn’t change the spark plug. By the time I rounded my house a second time, checked our pick up truck and then re-checked the closet I still hadn’t found it. Something just said, “Tameka try to start the lawn mower up.” I did and it started right up just like it usually did. I let it go, and started it again, and it roared back on. Yay, I shrieked in victory. I ran inside, changed shoes and got back to my working lawn mower.

Yeah I know you were hoping for maybe more detailed instructions but in general good maintenance on your lawnmower is changing your oil and air filter (if you have one) and changing your spark plug. Some videos suggest cleaning the carburetor too. Surprisingly all of these tasks are fairly simple with the right tools. Also FYI, I believe you can borrow tools from AutoZone which I will keep in mind when I do have to actually change the spark plug.

The life lesson in this whole thing, don’t let anything get in your way of getting something done. I just walked away from my lawnmower for a couple of days and then it started working again. Moral: It wasn’t as bad as I originally thought it was. What else in your life can you apply that too? I don’t know but it was a simple moment that made a big impact and yet I am all the better because when my lawn mower does need maintenance I have broken the cycle of repair or replace. I instead can resolve on my own first, or at least try to. If by some chance that doesnt’ work, I’ll go back to replace or the repairman.

Happy Friday folk!

Be blessed and be a blessing!

A Very Pleasant Mom of 4…Tameka

#AHappy14thBirthday

#BakedAlaska

#Wikipedia

#AMothersLuv

#LawnMaintenance

#Briggs&Stratton

#LifeLesson

 

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